Ask Joshua - Square vs. Rectangle: Exploring the Ideal Dining Table for Your Space

Hi Joshua,

I've been living in my home for more than two decades now, and as the holiday season approaches, my husband and I have decided that it's finally time to give our dining room a fresh new look before hosting our family this season. The topic of discussion revolves around the type of dining table that should replace our current one. Personally, I've observed that we frequently play host to dinner parties, usually composed of two or three couples. The idea of having an expansive square dining table appeals to me immensely. I imagine a large square table with two chairs on each side, a setup that strikes me as the perfect arrangement for our dinner gatherings, with each couple comfortably seated across from one another.

Our dining room itself is nearly square in shape, making a sizable square table even more fitting. This arrangement not only complements the room's dimensions but also adds an air of symmetry that's visually pleasing, at least to me. However, my husband remains somewhat skeptical about this idea. He has a penchant for the classic rectangle dining tables, valuing their versatility, particularly the option to extend the table to accommodate additional guests on special occasions.

Yet, upon reflection, we've realized that our gatherings seldom exceed eight guests. While my husband's preference for flexibility is noteworthy, the occasions where we actually require an extended table seem to be quite rare. Our main goal is to maintain a sense of tradition in our home's aesthetics, as it harmonizes seamlessly with the overall ambiance of the house. We're keen on upholding our home's timeless charm without it feeling dreary or mundane.

So, the question remains: what should be the focal point of our dining room? A grand square table that perfectly suits the spatial dynamics and fosters intimate interactions, or a classic rectangular table that offers adaptability but might slightly deviate from the room's symmetry? our insights and thoughts on this matter would be greatly appreciated

Thank you,

Lorraine - Baton Rouge, Louisiana

Traditional dining room with a square table. AI generated via Imagine.

Hi Lorraine,

I genuinely appreciate your thoughtful question regarding the best dining table shape for your space and needs. Here's what I think:

I completely get the practicality of a rectangle dining table that can be extended to accommodate 8 or more guests during those times when you play host. Also, you typically have more options available by going the route of the more traditional rectangular shape. You mentioned that your dinner parties rarely cross the 8-guest mark though. While the idea of a versatile, extendable rectangle table has its merits, considering how you typically use your dining room and your entertaining style, it seems like this might not be a must-have in your case.

After carefully going over the photos you kindly provided, I find myself leaning towards your viewpoint. A generously sized square dining table, where each side can comfortably seat a couple, feels like an elegant choice that would seamlessly match your dining room's vibe.

Interestingly, some folks might not realize that a square or even a round dining table fosters a more intimate and connected atmosphere, allowing conversations to flow more naturally compared to a rectangular one. While rectangular tables are fantastic for accommodating larger groups, they can sometimes create a bit of a divide, making it a tad harder for everyone to engage across the table, especially if on opposite side. On the flip side, a square table encourages interaction effortlessly. Also, if you're into family-style dinners, a square table makes it a breeze for everyone to reach the dishes at the center, without the need for constant passing of plates.

I'd also like to bring up another point. If you do decide on a square dining table, I suggest considering a square rug underneath. This not only adds to the visual symmetry of the room but also brings a sense of cohesion. In fact, I've penned down a blog, Size Does Matter - for rugs that delves into choosing the right rug size for dining tables, which might offer some valuable insights.

Should you need further assistance in transforming your dining room, please don't hesitate to get in touch. Crafting a dining space that truly resonates with you is my passion and specialty.

Warmly,

Joshua Jones

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